Holding our son for the 1st time. That's his transition mother. She took care of him for a month while legalities were sorted out.
The inspiration for our "Cat's in the Cradle" album. This was before The Moose came home. Our cat, Dylan, slept in his cradle often.
So this year, we decided to celebrate the anniversary of our Gotcha day by getting a new album and visiting our agency (Gladney Center for Adoption). Here we are at the antique mall:
We decided on Marty Robbins for "El Paso." The finale of Breaking Bad was a few days ago, and that song made an appearance so it was fresh on our mind (side note: the finale episode was called "Felina", that's the name of the girl in the "El Paso" song).
We also scored and found The Moose's life chest!! I have been keeping my eyes open for something for the last year and finally found the perfect chest. The life chest is a common thing for adopted children. It's where we keep his life story. Things that are personal to him that we wouldn't exactly put on the coffee table for guests. Things from his birth family and our agency.
We stopped by Corner Bakery and bought some cookies for the ladies living in the dorm at our agency. Our agency (Gladney Center for Adoption) has dorm rooms that some expectant birth mothers live in while they are pregnant. It's a great support system for the ladies to be able to bond with other women going through similar experiences. Our birth mom lives out of town and did not live in the dorm.
Here we are at the agency.
I loved watching him roam the halls at Gladney! He made himself right at home!
Here's Ryan & The Moose watching the preview for Blossoms in the Dust. That's an Academy Award winning movie about Edna Gladney, the founder of the Gladney Agency. We haven't seen it yet. We need to track down a copy.
Here's our antique store loot. I love that chest!
Of course I dusted it with my lemon & olive oil dusting mix.
Here's some of the things we have in the chest. You won't see everything, this is his private life story, but here's some things you can see. The white binder is part of our application to the agency. Yes, I said PART of the application. The yellow book is a photo book for the birth moms. That book is how the birth moms choose their families, they get a handful of books and pick from that. So our birth mom read that yellow book and then picked us! The blue book is an album from his transition mother. During transition, there are legal things that need to be sorted out. During that time, he stayed with his transition mother. We couldn't meet him during transition but we did get updates.
Yep, that's part of our application.
I just have found your blog through a link and started to read through your writings.
ReplyDeleteI like the way you write, not to mention the photos, and how your personality comes through.
I guess you will meet me on your blog more often in the next days
Thank you also for sharing part of your experiences with your little guy. He´s a cutie...seem to always have a smile on his lips.
BTW, I find this life chest for your son an incredibly good idea.
Thank you so much for all the kindness!!! Thanks for stopping by & reading! See you around. Thanks so much!!!
DeleteHe is absolutely beautiful! What a blessing you've been entrusted with. I love how you got the name of your blog....way cute title!! Looking forward to poking around through here!
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Nikki
Thanks for the kindness! And thanks for stopping by!
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